As I stressed to you in the workshop, if you have a PATTERN of dating emotionally unavailable people, it's likely NOT GOING TO BE ENOUGH for you to just focus on manifesting a good guy.

This stuff works, but you ALSO need to be able recognize the right one when you find him.

Most of the time if someone has a pattern of dating the wrong types, it's indicative of a deeper emotional wound.

It's an emotional wound that comes from our primary caregivers, most especially from our dad.

Dad sets the template for how we come to expect to be treated by men.

You may intellectually know better than to accept poor treatment from a man. 

You may intellectually KNOW that guy is no good….but you can’t help but find yourself attracted to him. 

Usually the more emotionally unavailable he is, the stronger the attraction.  🤮

That’s what an emotional wound does to us. It completely overrides what you KNOW to be right and true. 

I had this happen to me over and over. And honestly, it made me feel like such trash. 

👉 You can’t think your way out if it. (It’s not an intellectual problem)

👉You can’t just stop dating in hopes that fixes it somehow. (Ignoring it might stop the bleeding but it won’t fix the root of the issue)

👉You can’t just be on guard for red flags (You won’t see them or you won’t trust yourself)

👉And you can’t just put up a wall around your heart thinking you’ll lower it when you find someone you can trust. (This will only bring you even more men whom you can’t trust and whom won’t commit)

NONE of these things will work. I’ve tried them all!

✨The only fix is to address the emotional wound. 

Can you do this work on your own?

Yes. I did. 

But it’s the LONG way.

It will likely take you years, like it did me. I was only able to chip away at some of the parts of it, because I couldn’t see all of it. I didn’t fully understand how it worked and how to heal it properly.

Are you prepared to give away MORE years of your life to this, when you could be enjoying life as part of a happy couple within months?

What is that worth to you? Can you even put a price on it?

If you are a growth-minded woman who is on a mission to find the partner of her dreams, then I invite you to apply for Dating Alchemy.

It's my 16 week private coaching program for women who are ready to meet THE ONE (NOW)!

Simply fill out the application, then you'll be directed to book your call so we can discuss how exactly I can help you and if this is a good fit for you.

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